- With younger kids: There’s no better way to get to know their thoughts than to have them write and act out a play. Try this easy ‘puppet’ show:
- magazines
- scissors
- glue
- popsicle sticks or straws
- imagination
-Name each character, identify who they are (Mom, Dad, etc.) and what they do
-Write an outline script (not too detailed … you’ll want them to be spontaneous!)
-Gather an audience and put on a puppet play
- With Tweens: My favorite time and place to bond with my sons is in the kitchen! Food is typically the byproduct of the time we spend together. Try making these ‘edible crayons’ and make certain you have your secret list of topics already in your head to get a good quality discussion going while you ‘work’ at this fun project:
- pretzel rods cut into 3” pieces (adult with serrated knife works best)
- fun-colored melting chocolates (from craft or kitchen store) melted
- wax paper or foil
- wrappers for your crayons (check out my colleague‘s link to download free ‘end of school’ labels here: 24/7 MOMS
-Dip ends of pretzel rods into colored melted chocolates
-Set on wax paper or foil to dry
-While chocolate is still tacky, wrap a label around each ‘crayon’
- With Older Kids: This is a great time to teach your kids to journal. Perhaps at this age, they will also need one ‘private’ journal of their own; however, to get them in the habit, get a journal for each of you with the intent that you will share what you have written with each other.
- journals or notebooks
- special pens (this makes it more ceremonial and special … and perhaps gives incentive to write)
- specific topics that will help you get to know each other a little better (for instance: What was your favorite age, and why? Did you have a favorite birthday, and what made it special? What is your favorite holiday? What was your most embarrassing moment? …)
- quiet time separately
- quiet time together to share your journals
-Decide on a time and place to get together and share your journal entries (it might help if you keep the same day of the week and time slot as your special appointment)
No matter how old your kids are, these exercises will allow you to spend quality bonding time with them now while building memories of a lifetime.
Enjoy the magic,
;-Deb