Setting Homework Standards

Today I’m sharing some creative tips on how to set the homework tone for the rest of the school year, now … BEFORE it becomes a problem.


School is back in session. Most parents I talk to are happy about that except for one thing … they seem to dread homework almost as much as their kids!

When you hear the word 'HOMEWORK' does scary-movie-music play in your head? ... If so, listen-up~

OK, here’s the deal … homework time does NOT have to feel like tax time!

There are a few things you can do to nip this in the bud … I’m going to cut right to the chase here …

I’ve got ONE SECRET WEAPON that works for almost anything when dealing with our kids:

Let them share in the decision-making process.

Here’s how:

Give them some control, let them know that their opinion matters and that you trust their judgment.
• Of course, we typically have to steer them toward the right decision, but they don’t have to know that.
• You might also want to be prepared to negotiate a little because you KNOW they will have their own ideas … although this might be frustrating, it really shows good independent thinking skills, and if you are prepared for it, you can still maintain control.
• You really enter the ‘danger zone’ when you are not prepared!

Here are 3 things that will help make this school year run a little smoother:
1. Decide on homework time TOGETHER
2. Choose a homework spot TOGETHER
3. Gather tools to help make homework successful TOGETHER

Notice that one key element there … TOGETHER!

• Instead of demanding that homework be done at a specific time, talk it over with your son or daughter and get their input … give 2 or 3 choices:
o Right after school, right before dinner, right before bed

• Perhaps you can also give them 2 or 3 places from which to choose:
o In bedroom, at kitchen table, on family room floor

• Talk out the pluses and minuses of each … together

• Gather tools to make it easier:
o Laptop, lap-desk, pens/pencils, erasers, protractor, calculator, clip-on book-light, snack(!) … doesn’t food make everything better?

• Talk about how it trains their brain to get into ‘homework mode’ so that they understand the importance of consistency.

• This might also be a good time to discuss the importance of certain ‘brain foods’ and how they help the thinking process: Foods high in Omega 3; certain veggies like cauliflower and broccoli, nuts and seeds, raspberries…

These tips made a huge difference in my son's attitude toward homework time, and as a result, made a more peaceful time for all of us!

Believe me, a little planning can truly be the difference between success and failure this year! ... for everyone in your home~

Ahh! ... Isn't that better?
;-Deb